The Delftians

Expats from the Delft region organise drinks, sports, games, baby-sitting, etc.

Saturday, January 20, 2007

Welcome to The Delftians

About the group

Socials, information exchange and activities for expats in and around Delft. We have drinks in Delft every 2 weeks, and members also meet for sports (squash, football), board games, poker, restaurant nights, baby-sitting, etc.

The group is kept lively thanks to people's involvement: coming to the drinks, adding a shop, cafe or restaurant review, organising a side-activity, adding an idea to our 'top-and-worst-things-about-Holland' lists.

To find out more, check our FAQ section.

All are welcome to join provided they are...


- an expat

- over 18
- not using the group for commercial or opportunistic promotion

How to join

1/ E-mail us on delftians@gmail.com, answering the following STANDARD QUESTIONS:


- E-mail address
- First name
- First letter of last name
- Gender
- Nationality
- Native language
- City of residence in NL
- How you have heard from us

(Optional:)

- Age
- How long lived in NL
- How long planning on staying in NL

or

- Click on '0 comments' (bottom of this post)
- Write the answers to the standard questions
- Save your comment

PRIVACY: Your information - including e-mail address - remains private, and shall not be passed on to anyone without your prior permission. Other information (e.g. nationality, age, etc. is only for group statistics).

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Events and activities

INTRO TO THIS SECTION

Events and regular activities promoted or organised by The Delftians.



REGULAR ACTIVITIES AND SERVICES

Babysitting circle
Posted: 4 Oct 2006; Event date: as and when

Laura is the coordinator of a long-standing babysitting circle for expats around Leidschendam, Delft, Wateringseveld, etc. New members of the circle are welcome, provided they live at a reasonable distance from the cities mentioned.

Principle: Babysitting gives you points, receiving babysitting takes your points. The more parents that participate, the less pressure on each individual couple, so the more the merrier!

(Laura, ).

Board games
Posted: 4 Oct 2006; Event date: as and when

If you'd like to host a boardgames nights once in a while, let me know and I'll send a mail to the group. Doesn't matter what boardgame - but avoid Twister! We're massively into Catan at the moment.

(Laure-Anne, )


Drinks
Posted: 4 Oct 2006; Event date: every other Thursday, next one on 5 Oct

This is how the group started. Drinks are every other Thurdsay in Delft, starting at 8pm. Group members receive an invite 3 days before each drinks.

(Laure-Anne, )


Football (soccer)
Posted: 4 Oct 2006; Location: Clingendael Park, The Hague; Event date: every Sunday, 5pm-7pm

We join another expat group in the Clingendael Park in The Hague for (very) casual soccer. They're always short of players so they welcome our numbers.

It's a casual affair, with t-shirts as goal posts, sometimes as little as 3 players per team, etc. Excellent fun, though, and a fantastic work-out.

When I go, I can give people a lift from Delft, but you need to let me know you're coming.

(Laure-Anne, )


Photography outings
Posted: 6 Oct 2007; Event date: as and when

Donna organises outings for enthusiastic amateur photographers (digital or film) to hone their skills. Planned activities include field trips, gallery visits, discussions, encouragement and friendly critique (if desired).

(Donna, )

Poker night
Posted: 3 Oct 2006; Location: at the host member's house; Event date: as and when

Let me know if you want to host the poker night. Tell me when and where, and I'll send an e-mail to the group. Big spenders beware: max losses are 2 euros! In general, Jens organises them in his house in The Hague.

(Laure-Anne, )

Pop Quiz
Posted: 11 Oct 2006; Event date: TBD

What is it: A pub quiz only about music. Waaaaay more high-tech than our traditional British pub quizzes (giant screens, superb sono, etc.). Great fun for music trivia lovers, but extremely poor jokes.

What's it about: They play videos, give partial song lyrics, etc. and you have to guess the artist, etc. Loads of the classics get a mention, so you don't need to be under 21 to have a chance!
Beware, I need to contact them in advance if they are to ask the questions in English.

When: Our first one was on Friday 20 Oct in Delft. Others will be announced. Doors open at 8.30pm, but arrive at 8pm if you want a guaranteed table.

How much: Participation costs 5 euros. This gets you a free entrance to the 90s party afterwards (I know, I know, as if one could already be nostalgic about the 90's! Young people...)

Where: Speakers, on Burgwal 45-49 in Delft, http://www.speakers.nl/

What am I coordinating: If you're coming, let me know. Arrive at 8pm, and we'll form teams and find tables. Feel free to bring your Dutch friends, we could do with the help on the Dutch questions!

(Laure-Anne, )


Restaurant night
Posted: 3 Oct 2006; Location: Delft; Event date: as and when

People expressed an interest in organising regular restaurant nights. If you want to organise one, let me know the details and I'll send a mail to the group.

If you're going to one, only confirm if you are definitely sure you will come: don't leave the organiser with empty seats and an angry chef!

(Laure-Anne, )


Squash
Posted: 4 Oct 2006; Location: Delft; Event date: as and when

Regular squash events are being organised. We try to get as many players as possible. To avoid an odd number, it work on a first-reply-first-serve basis.

(Jens, and Oscar, )

Table tennis
Posted: 4 Oct 2006; Event date: as and when

Whoever's interested in playing table tennis, come out, it's nothing to be ashamed of!!! We are looking for volunteers in Delft to host this, as I have a ping-pong table, but I live a bit far away. Does anybody know of the ever-elusive public-access ping-pong table in Delft?

(Laure-Anne, )

EXTERNAL EVENTS AND ACTIVITIES

Feel at Home expat fair The Hague
Posted: 18 Sep 2006; Event date: 17 Sep 2006 (past)

The expat fair on Sunday (17 Sep) was exhausting, but great. Dawn, Loreto and I hosted the group's stand and met 12 new people who want to join the group. We were standing for about 6 hours, but it was all worth it. We met lots of nice, funny people, and increased the local awareness of our group in The Hague. (Laure-Anne, )

COORDINATING A DELFTIAN EVENT

(you must be a member of The Delftians) Create a comment and indicate:

  • Your name;
  • The activity;
  • The location;
  • The suggested date(s);
  • Any pre-requisites (if applicable);
  • Cost (if applicable);
  • Other note-worthy information (if applicable);
  • Deadline for contacting you (if applicable).
Note I: Your e-mail address will be given to the group

Note II: Please answer when people contact you

Note III: Avoid clashing with other activity - See calendar above.

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Frequently Asked Questions

Intro to this section

Frequently Asked Questions and their answers. Ask any additional questions by click on 0 comments below).

Do you need to live in Delft to join?

No, some members (including myself) do not live in Delft. See our Stats section to see who lives round your way.

What does the group do?

Anything that will help local expats: share local knowledge, build a social network, practise sports, etc. We are always looking for new activity ideas and volunteers to organise them.

Our actitivies are listed in the Activities section. Here is a summary: drinks every 2 weeks, squash, football, poker, board games, and a baby-sitting circle.

We also have a message broadcast service: members send me a message and I'll pass it on to the group: e.g. looking for a job or apartment, furniture to sell, pet-sitter, etc.

UNWANTED MAIL I: All messages go through me, so no trash.

UNWANTED MAIL II: If you want, you only receive the mails confirming the drinks.

The group is supported by the blog you are viewing. The blog is meant as a give-and-take platform to share local knowledge.

Entries to the recommended shops, bars and restaurants in Delft and region are much appreciated. As are recommendations for expat associations and services, and handy Dutch webpages: public transport, estate hunt, etc.

If you feel you're alone in getting irritated, or marvelling at a particular aspect of our adoptive nation, check out our top 100 things about Holland (and, incidentally, worst 100 things about Holland) for a colourful portrait of Holland in the eyes of us expats.

Can anyone join?

Yes, as long as you are an expat (i.e. you have experienced the typical expat hurdles: culture shock, having to find your bearings, friends frequently departing, language barrier, etc.).

How much does it cost?

There is no joining fee, it's free. You just need to pay for your own consumptions (and no one's going to stop you getting a round in!).

When are the drinks?

The drinks are every other Thursday from 8.00 pm to whenever (people come and go whenever. The last ones tend to leave around midnight, but there have been later nights).

Where are the drinks?

Our usual haunt is de Ruif in Delft (see our 'how to get there' section for directions). Ask behind the bar if you don't find us.

Can I bring someone along?

The drinks are for members of the group. Feel free to bring someone along, but if they'd like to come back, I'd like them to become fully-fledged members of the group.

Do I need to confirm even if don't come?

Please confirm if you are thinking of joining us for the drinks (unless you're on yes by default). If you don't come, no need to reply to my reminder e-mail.

How do I recognize the group's table?

We tell the staff at the bar who we are. We'll likely be the only large English-speaking group, and it is a small pub. If you can't find us, ask the bar staff for The Delftians expat group.

What is the group's gender, nationality, etc. mix

The drinks are a multitude of people from different ages, professions, languages, etc. Here is some stats on the group:

Nationality: The majority are American, British and French. We have quite a few Australians too, and a few Irish and Canadians.

Gender: About 1/3 men, 2/3 women (quite a feat for Delft, which is a majority male town).

Age: The majority of us are in our 30's and 40's, and quite a few people are in their 20's. We also have people in their 50's and 60's too.

Profession: Lots of TU researchers, IT professionals, and home-makers. We have a few people from the classic expat employers of the region: EPO and Shell.

Native language: 3/4 of our members are native English speakers. The next biggest language is French.

Town of residence: The greatest majority live in Delft. A lot of people also come from The Hague and Rotterdam. Some come from further off, like Gouda, Leiden, Almere, Utrecht, etc.

For exact numbers (per gender, town, nationality, etc.), you can go to the group's statistics.

How many people typically turn up for the drinks?

The average has been hovering around 18, but it can be as little as 10 and as much as 40. It kind of depends.
What is the point of the group?

To form a close-knit expat community in Delft, so noone feels disconnected. It should help if you want to:

- meet new people, some of which you're bound to become friends with
- get answers to local knowledge questions (recommended shops, bars and restaurants in Delft and region, expat resources, indispensible Dutch websites, etc.)
- dig in our numbers to organise group activities like picnics, murder mystery, etc. (see activities)
- participate in regular sports activities like squash and footie (see activities)
- broadcast messages to the group (queries, announcements, questions, etc.)

Essentially, you shouldn't have to walk through Delft feeling like a stranger, without meeting a couple of familiar faces.

What is the group's language?

The group's language is English, but about 1/4 of our members are non-native English speakers. If you'd like to join, it would help to be fluent in English, so you can enjoy the conversations at the drinks.

What about privacy and spamming?

PRIVACY: I only use your information for my stats. I never ask for postal address or surnames.

NO PASSING ON OF PERSONAL DETAILS: I do not give any information without your prior permission. If you are organising an activity, or registering for one, your e-mail address will be passed on.

JUNK MAIL: Broadcast mails go through me, so I won't let junk get through. If you just want to receive the mails about the drinks, you can be removed from the main mailing list.

How long has The Delftians existed?

The Delftians started on 3 May 2006.

Is it possible to organise designated drivers to the drinks?

I can send your e-mail address to other members living in your area, so you can organise joint transport among yourselves.

Who is the organiser (my bio)?

I am a French-speaking Belgian, and had lived in the UK for a large part of my life prior to moving to Amsterdam in my late 20's. I moved to a small village close to Delft in 2004, where I live with my Dutch partner. As an IT consultant, I have to travel A LOT (sigh) for work.


I love facts - the more useless the better, lists, small ugly dogs, good summaries, facts from all cults and religions, French and English history, and painfully cheesy stuff (read David Hasselhof, royal families and garden gnomes).

How did the group start?

My social circle was slow to pick up again after moving to a village. I was living the usual expat frustrations: local etiquette, regulations, language, finding good restaurants, doctors, shops, etc..


I couldn't find expat groups in Delft at the time, so I sent messages to expat mailing lists to see if anybody was interested in setting something up in Delft. 7 people met up for our first drinks on 3 May 2006. We had a great laugh, and it all started from there.


The drinks have continued every 2 weeks, and word of mouth took care of the rest. We now have the blog, over 100 members, sports and other activities, a baby-sitting circle (see activities), our Top and Worst 100 things about Holland', a mailing list, etc.

I love that people have met through the group and are now good mates, I love that a couple of pubs know our faces when we walk in, I love that I can't walk in Delft without bumping into a fellow expat, I love that my local knowledge has increased, that I always have someone to call if I want to go and socialise, and most of all, I love that I am meeting a colourful bunch of warm, quirky and interesting people from all walks of life.


What's a typical Delftians meet-up like?

I send an e-mail in advance, and we meet every other Thursday. I send the list of people coming the day before (based on confirmations) and confirm the location. By 8pm on Wednesday night, I consider the list definite.

I arrive at the bar a bit in advance to re-arrange the tables if necessary so we can all sit together. The start is always a little slow, and we tend to all be there around 9pm.

Conversations tend to be in English, but it depends on where you end up sitting. I know I love going back to my roots and speak French once in a while, and I manoeuvre it so that two people from the same country get to have a chat.

If we're sitting, we have a seat swap so you get to meet other people. If it's more a mingling kind of night, we just let people get on with it.

At each drink, there is a mix of the usual suspects and first-timers. It works out nicely so there's never only one new kid on the block, and the regulars are comfortable with each other.

Group Statistics

Intro to this section

To give you a rough idea of the mix of people in The Delftians, I compile each member's standard info into group statistics. These figures were last updated on 6 Sep 2007 (there you go, Joe, you can stop nagging). Have fun browsing!

Total numbers

177 people have joined the Delftians since its beginning in May 2006. This means whoever has contacted me to ask to be in the group. Some of them have already moved out of the country, and some were only one-off visits.

115 people are active members (i.e. they have not left the country, they are still in contact with the group).

People at the drinks

About 1 person out of 5 comes to the drinks after making initial contact. This is a shame and we encourage you to overcome your reservations and meet us in person once you've joined the group. There are always 1 or 2 newcomers at each drinks. There is a core of 7 or 8 regular people, and some visit us once in a while.

On average, 10 to 15 people come to each drink, but it has been known to vary between 5 and 40! To keep a good relationship with the pub, we appreciate rsvp's if you are coming.

Age

The age span is quite wide. The majority of the group are in their mid 30's and early 40's. The actual age span of the group goes from 21 to 71 years old.

Nationality

The active group is composed of members from 32 different nationalities. See below for the number of people per country. The leading nationalities are UK, US and France.

The table below is sorted in reverse order or frequency (the most frequent nationality first):























































































































































































































NumberCountryFlag
26UK
13US
10France
5Australia
5Austria
5Ireland
4Belgium
4Canada
4Germany
4Italy
4South Africa
2Argentina
2Greece
2Hungary
2New Zealand
2India
2Israel
2Russia
2Spain
1China
1Columbia

1Denmark
1Indonesia
1Iran
1Nepal
1Portugal
1

Sweden

1Turkey
1Vietnam

Town of residence in Holland

You don't have to live in Delft to join the group (I don't live in Delft myself). The table below lists each town in The Netherlands where membersof the group lives.

This could be interesting if you'd like to organise shared lifts from your area to one of our activities. If you would like to contact people in your area, let me know and I'll ask them to get in touch with you.















































































































NumberTown
45Delft
11The Hague
5Rotterdam
5Rijswijk
5Wateringseveld
3Voorburg
1Almere
2Delfgauw
2Leiden
1Almere
1Amsterdam
1Delfgauw
1Den Hoorn
1Gouda (Gouderak)
1Honselersdijk
1Sassenheim
1Schiedam
1Utrecht

Gender

We actually have a majority of women in the group, which is a feat for Delft (technical university town, so nightlife tends to be majority male). There are 70 women and 52 men.

Please do not join the group solely hoping to score with the ladies: most of us are married!

Top 100 Dutch things

Intro to this section

To make sure we stay positive about our adoptive country, I started making a list of POSITIVE things about it. So go on, let's show the world the nice things about living here.

If you want to add an item, click on '0 comment', type your text and save it. Don't forget to leave your name with your comments!

1/ My man

Best thing to come out of any country (Laure-Anne, )

My man is also a wonderful thing about Holland (Geneviève, )


2/ Cycling

I am not what you would call a practising cyclist, but I can see the attraction from a safe distance. Don't try to get me on one, though. Too much chance of rain, flat tyre, panting and sweating. (Laure-Anne, )

A complete lifestyle. Cheap, clean, silent, convenient, efficient, funny, good for health (Vincent, )


Everywhere is accessible by bike (Amanda & Julian, )

3/ Effectiveness

You can say a lot about the Dutch, but they really don't mess when it comes to getting things done. (Laure-Anne, )

4/ Technology

Where else do you have map stations on the street? Chose your destination, press OK, et voilaaaa: you have a free colour map of the route to take, all for free! (Laure-Anne, )

5/ Tall, blond hair, blue eyes

Aaaah, good old batavian, nordic genes. It's like the country's full of supermodels. Oh, and if (like me) you are a short-arsed, brown-haired, brown-eyed, big-boned Walloon, you'll even pass as exotic! (Laure-Anne, )

6/ Petting zoos -AKA kinderboerderijen

They're huge, they're everywhere, they're free + you can go in the enclosure with the animals! I recommend it anyday, with or without the kids! (Laure-Anne, )

7/ Herons

I still get very excited when I see one, and boy, are they a frequent occurrence. (Laure-Anne, )

The herons are fine indeed, but the diving Great Crested Grebes in the canals, frequently with their offspring on their back, are just sublime, taking into account that these birds were almost invisible 30 years ago in city centers!(Leo, ?)


8/ Windmills

I find it special that there are windmills all over the place, and that the locals don't even bat an eyelid at them. (Laure-Anne, )

9/ Old historical city centres

Delft, Gouda, The Hague, Amsterdam, Utrecht, Leiden, Alkmaar, Groningen, ... You name it, any city in The Netherlands (short of having been bombed in WWII) has a breathtaking city centre. This could be to do with the fact that they were so loaded in the 17th century, which happens to be a centry of very pretty buildings. (Laure-Anne, )

Amsterdam, one of the most beautiful and best cities on earth. Good thing that the Germans only destroyed Rotterdam ... (Vincent, )


10/ Policemen

So smiley and polite and helpful, even catch you doing something you really shouldn't do... One of them actually apologised to me for telling me off (mildly) for a driving licence about 2 years out of date. Makes you wonder, though, is politeness a skill reserved for the police in Holland? Bit like a secret weapon? (Laure-Anne, )

11/ Public transport

Easy and speedy public transport (Geneviève, )

Trains - Coming here from Britain it makes a pleasant change to actually have access to a rail network with clean modern trains, which run on time most of the time, or if not are bizarrely either precisely five, ten or twenty minutes late. If someone can please explain how they manage to ensure that the trains are punctually late I would appreciate it. (Ralph, )


12/ Proximity to water

Be it canal, sea, or lake (Geneviève, )

Water everywhere. Nature is a bit weird here ... well, it's nature under the control of human work. It seems that there not a single piece of land in this country which has been left to a "random" development. Even if it is "natural", it has to conform to some standards, to some form of discipline ... But the result is interesting. Netherlands, really an unusual place. (Vincent, )


Canals are a wonderful thing, offering homes to coots, ducks, and providing the local heron with something to stare at for hours on end, being overwhelmed wth water-lilies and terrace-boats in the summer, and offering young children and wildlife manifold skating opporunities in the winters of yore. More importantly, they offer hours of entertainment - as you watch the tourists try to park their cars by the canal side - and your boss another excuse to be late for work. (Ralph, )

13/ Flowers

Beautiful fresh-cut flowers year-round, and for cheap! (Geneviève, )

14/ Dogs welcome

A small-to-mid-size, well-behaved dog is welcome everywhere (this may be a negative to some, but a positive to me!). (Geneviève, )

15/ Sun light

The way the sun shines here (when it does), it make everything look like a Rembrandt or Vermeer landscape- gorgeous. (Geneviève, ).

The skies in The Netherlands are simply breathtaking. (Laure-Anne, )

16/ Loempia

Loempia stands on every corners of Rotterdam. (Geneviève, )

17/ Bread

The bread- all of it, the delicious full-grain truly brown bread, with a slice of yummy Dutch cheese! (Geneviève, )

18/ Garden gnomes

Wow! Those microscopic gardens packed with tacky garden ornaments. You just have to love them. (Laure-Anne, )

19/ Clearly marked deviations

Their deviation road signs are actually very, very, very clear. Even I don't get lost for days when I follow them, and I am uber-navigationally challenged. (Laure-Anne, )

20/ Safety and crime

I can walk round at night in city centres and I don't feel even slightly threatened. Try doing that in Paris, Brussels or Birmingham... (Laure-Anne, )

21/ English spoken

They all speak SUCH good English. There was this Irish guy organising Dutch conversation classes for expats, and he could not for his life find Dutch people who didn't speak English. I think he stopped after 3 years or so. (Laure-Anne, )

22/ Cows and sheep

I love the cows here: all sorts of colours and patterns. I particularly like the Laekenvelders (with the big stripe). In , they tend to be just black-and-white. Oh, and the black and brown sheep. I hadn't really seen so many of them anywhere else. I even saw a pink goat in a kinderboerderij the other day (Laure-Anne, Belgium)

23/ Culture of tolerance

Culture of tolerance. Bla-bla-bla the Dutch immigration Theo Van Gogh etc.. this is not a perfect place but as a matter of fact, this is certainly one of the most advanced countries in the world on that topic, and for a while - for example, where else were all religions tolerated in the XVII century ?. Where else can you freely smoke your pot if you like it? (Vincent, )

24/ Melting pot

No, not the coffee shop, I mean the international atmosphere. (Vincent, )

25/ The mad entrepreneur spirit

I think that nothing is impossible for people who extended 1/3rd of the country land, taken from the sea ... Crazy Dutch ! If I had a tough and challenging job to outsource, I would be confident to give it to that kind of guys ... (Vincent, )

26/ Quality of life

Just amazing. Everything here seems to be easy, planned, efficient, organized, clean... Working hours, work ethic, home-work commuting, ... This looks like civilisation at its best. (Vincent, )

27/ Food

To me the food in the Netherlands, is one of the great things about this country because it is literally so lethal. Croquettes, Mexicanos, Frites with Frite-saus, sate, and cakes which feature bright pink icing which surely must contravene some health and safety directive, if not good taste. All absolutely fantastic stuff, but then again I am British. (Ralph, )

28/ No ageism

The Nederlands Dans Theater (NDT) is the first to have a company of professional dancers 'over the age of forty'. Unfortunately, this year (2006) this company of veteran dancers was disbanded. However, I think it is amazing that Jiri Kylian had the courage to form a company that showed that it really is a crime to stop people doing what they enjoy doing just because they are viewed as being 'too old'. (Ralph, )

29/ Healthy

Most Dutch people look, well, healthy. Sooo healthy you'd think they're straight out of some Yakult advert. Is it the 2 liters of milk they drink per day? (Laure-Anne, )

When I arrived here, I could not understand how the Dutch looked so healthy on their diet. I presumed it was because they cycled everywhere, or because they were genetically very lucky, or because the winters, which seem to stretch from August to June are so cold and wet that all that food is burned off through shivering. But then someone pointed out the awful truth, the really awful truth. The gyms are alwyas full, apparently. I should mention that I have not been in a gym since I left school and have no intention of setting foot on one, ever again, but from what I have heard, between the hours of 18.00 and 21.00, the young Dutch like nothing better than to waste time on treadmills, aero-cycles and other equally tortuous devices. The poor dears... (Ralph, )


30/ Cleanliness

Streets tend to be really, really clean. (Laure-Anne, )

31/ Decadence

For some reason the Dutch do like to do things that are clearly very unhealthy such as eat the food, smoke, and sunbathe on the four days of the year when you can actually go to the beach without an overcoat. (Ralph, )

32/ Office buildings architecture

Not to anybody's taste, but I really like the hyper modern architecture of newly built office buildings in business centres. Take the World Trading Centre in Amsterdam: the ING and ABN buildings are really, really impressive. I also like (I must be the only one) Rotterdam's dead centre. Each building has a strong identity. (Laure-Anne, )

I am not sure I agree on this at all. To me the architecture in this country is too practical to be exciting. For the most part, the big office blocks are well ... big and blocky, and no amount of Colorcote steel or glass is going to disguise the fact that they are actually terribly functional. Personally, I like modern buildings that are wholly impractical, unmaintainable, and which completely upset the balance of a city's architecture, as long as I don't have to work in one of them. (Ralph, )


33/ Motorway surface coating

Ever driven from Belgium to Holland on a rainy day? You have a 2-meter visibility in Belgium, and as soon as you hit the Dutch road, it's like the waters are parting for your car. Aaaah, the Dutch are even great surface coating designers. (Laure-Anne, )

30/ Fashion

Anything goes. I heard a story from an expat. about how when she arrived here, she was shocked by how cold and wet it was, so she went out and bought a coat, a second-hand lime-green fake fur (at least I hope it was fake). This is the fantastic thing about this country, you can actually get away with wearing some very bizarre outfits, such as bright-red chinos, ultra-violet white cotton jackets, and snake skin shoes that are so long, you would not be able to reach the bar in an English pub (fortunately they have at-table service in most Dutch bars). All absolutely fantastic stuff, and certainly more interesting than the average high street. (Ralph, )

35/ Little mice with clogs on

They do exist apparently and are clearly a wonderful house-hold pet. Unfortunately, to see them you have to live in a windmill on old Amsterdam, and be prepared to suffer the most enormous hangover. (Ralph, )

36/ School for virtues

A good thing about living in this country is how virtuous it is possible to be. In order to cope with an alien set of manners, poor customer service, and homicidal secretaries, one needs to take a more relaxed attitude to life, and learn the virtues of patience, tolerance and understanding. (Ralph, )

37/ No dubbing

I love that you can see a movie in its original version (i.e. not dubbed). I cannot stand the French habit of systematic dubbing. Am sure that's why most Dutch teenagers reach adulthood perfectly bilingual in Dutch-English. (Laure-Anne, )

38/ Interior design

Most Dutch homes make me blush with our humble deco. Walking into a Dutch home can feel like a furniture show-room, with lots of deliberate arty touches, calculated colour schemes and really tidy. The only drawback: am scared of using the very expensive design furniture in case they sue me for damages. (Laure-Anne, )

39/ 'je' not 'u'

For the French speakers among us, I am talking about the 'tutoiement', about the fact that you can address a complete stranger as 'je', and be on first-name basis with a complete stranger. It's at odds with some Flemish regions where you say 'u' to your parents, and even your pet (am that's a fact!). (Laure-Anne, )

40/ Public toilets

I should preface this by saying that I don't actually spend that much time in public toilets, but this does deserve a mention. Most public toilets on railway stations, and in department stores are pretty similar, all very functional, white tiles, and very clean and tidy, except for the ones at Leiden Centraal station, which are quite tatty. However, the toilets at Den Haag Hollands Spoor, or rather the gentlemen's toilets are a little more civilised featuring an array of grooming products, fresh flowers by the door and complimentary mints. Indeed, this probably represents the very pinacle of civilisation. (Ralph, )

Same at the ladies' in Holland Spoort. Little known fact: the ladies' toilets at Holland Spoor have won the 'Best public toilet in The Netherlands' award a few years running - how's that for trivia? (Laure-Anne, )


41/ Drop

I have not stooped to the level of 'The Dutch I Presume' which includes 'cheese slicers' and 'drop' as examples of Dutch icons. (Ralph, )

Ooops, Ralph, looks like you just have (stooped so low). I find drop (the black, anise-flavored sweets) is really worth a mention. It is typically Dutch, and a good 'inburgeringstest'. I now proudly master the zoete ones. OK, the salty ones still elude me. I guess you need to have lived here for over 5 years to overcome the gagging reflex. (Laure-Anne, )


42/ Nijntje - aka Miffy

Easily the best Dutch export since, like, ever. The Japanese tried to steal the design with Hello Kitty, but there's only one Nijntje. Here's some little facts about her: a/ she's a female; b/ Dirk Bruna wrote the books as bed time stories for his one-year old son, c/ she's supposed to live in the Dutch dunes. I have a glow in the dark knuffel-Nijntje that I take everywhere with me. (Laure-Anne, )

Oh Nijntje! I agree. She's cute, simple, and a fantastic thing to send home to my nephew and cousins. I love how the beach at Hoek van Holland is divided in Nijntje characters! Or at least it used to be. I was tanning in the Nijntje boat section last year! (Geneviève, )


43/ No office cubicles

There's no cubicles anywhere. My building may just be a block, but it's a block where everyone gets an office, not a cubicle, and where every office gets one of its walls made of floor to ceiling windows. There's truly something to be said about a 2.5m by 4m window on the 16th floor. I might have to share this with one more person, but at least I don't get as vitamin D deprived here as I did in Canada! And you know what, being able to close my door when I'm having a bad day, or when I'm having a sensitive phone conversation- really, who thinks a cubicle is a good idea, anyway? Certainly not the Dutch, and I give them kuddos for it! (Geneviève, )

44/ Cookies with the coffee

That free cookie with your coffee deserves its own mention. And I love how there's usually a big basket of them in a meeting room and there's always that one tactless collegue who paws at the little bags to guess the shape and make of the treat inside and throws back the ones that don't pass muster- that's good for making me feel bad I'm not the idiot being picky about cookies in front of the firm's partners! Even better when the idiot is a partner so I can feel superior to them too! (Geneviève, )

45/ Library on the beach

Library on the beach- now that's brilliant. I don't know if they copied it from another place, but the national library system opens up library branches on the main beaches in the summer, as a way to bring the books to the people when and where they are most likely to be reading. You can walk in from the sand in your wet bathing suit and get kids' books, magazines, papers, short novels- all available free of charge to anyone on the beach, and I think that's grand. (Geneviève, )

46/ Long holidays

6 weeks paid vacation. Coming from a country where 2 is the norm, I certainly don't underestimate the value of lenghty paid vacation. It not only avoids having employees use sick days as vacation days, but it keeps everyone much happier. (Geneviève, )

47/ Tulip fields

Tulip fields you see in bloom when passing by train. I like simple pleasures, and sudenly seeing a field of purple, red, yellow, pink, white and orange all of a sudden appear after a bend... wow. No one should ever grow so blasé as to not appreciate the beauty of mass-produced flowers. So pretty it looks fake! (Geneviève, )
Indeed, tulip fields are fabulous. Nothing like flying above Holland in spring time. (Laure-Anne, )

48/ Inner courtyards - aka binnenhofs

Inner courtyards. I happen to live on a second floor apartment which has views in the back on a private courtyard. It's quiet, secluded, and beautiful. There's modern art on display, Christmas lights in the winter, and little kids play safely away from the nastiness that could be downtown Rotterdam. I love that there's so many of these secret gardens in the big cities. Sure, you can't always see them, but knowing there's such pretty things hidden away makes me happy. (Geneviève, )

49/ Snertrein

Not that I've ever been on (much to my dismay), there's a tram in Rotterdam devoted entirely to serving pea soup and showing the sights of Rotterdam. Isn't that the best? Just pay the fair (more than a regular tram ride) and get a bowl of hot pea soup in the winter. It's painted with silly pictures of people surfing green peasoup waves! And in the summer, it apparently turns into an icecream tram! How weirdly appealing. (Geneviève, )

50/ Cinemas

One of the most decadent experiences is to actually visit a traditional cinema. Unlike the multiplexes, some still allow smoking, serve beer and all the traditional snack-foods like bitterballen, and also, for those who are truly idle actually have at-seat service, so you don't even need to queue for popcorn and the like during the interval. This to me is the mark of a civilised society, although I think there might have been a good reason why they actually put a stop to smoking in most cinemas, but I cannot think what it was. (Ralph, ).

I agree. I love Dutch cinemas. Well, the ones I have been to anyway. The Lumen in Delft is great, so is the Apollo. I love that the seats are really big, that the room is not packed (well that could be down to my choice of movies), and you have an interval in between for loo break and beer refills, and that your beer gets served in a GLASS glass, and not in some paper beaker. (Laure-Anne, ).


51/ Getting a mortgage

It's so easy to get a mortgage in Holland and even for 110%. You just go to the Hypotheek Advisor and choose the cheapest product, like in a supermarket. (Oscar, ).

52/ Sinterklaas surprises

Here's how it works: around 5 December, you invite some friends around. Each has to buy a present for another person at the party (picked previously at random). You are supposed to wrap the present in something creative that you made yourself, and write a poem about the present's recipient (preferably in Dutch for an extra challenge. Shouldn't be difficult, everything ends with 'en'). The combination of tacky presents, terrible DIY and bad poetry just makes me shiver with anticipation. Laure-Anne ().


53/ Plenty of places to take the children for free

e.g. garden centres with play areas: you can sit and have a cup of coffee and the kids have great fun in the play area. (Dawn, )

54/ Poffertjes and stroopwafels

No comment, just very very very good. (Jeremy, )

55/ Calvinism

I have been converted by their enlightened Calvinism. (Anees, /)

56/ No aristocracy

Might sound British, but it's definitely a very good thing about Holland (Anees, /).

57/ Queen on her bike

The Queen of Holland rides her bike to the supermarket. Well, Albert Heijn, but still (Anees, /)

58/ Birthday cakes

The cakes people give out for their birthdays. (Brian, )

59/ Urban planning

The routing of bike paths is different here, winding through parks and green spaces instead of simply sticking to roadways. Somehow they even get permission from owners of expensive homes to allow paths that "intrude" right behind their private and expensive properties. For the country with the highest population density in all of Europe, it's amazing how long I can commute and not even realize I'm in a city. (Nikki, )

60/ Happy campers

Their love for camping in the outdoors seems disproportionate to what I've seen in other countries. Camping doesn't seem to be just for the poor. I've met some highly educated professionals camping in the French Alps and a former coworker here says it's their hobby to take the caravan and the fiets and go off for the weekend. (Nikki, )

61/ Appreciation for nature

Quite a few Dutch have told me the best stress management is to "get out in nature," a phrase people from other cultures have never told me so frequently. I suppose reclaiming the land and water management and their great landscape art could also be seen as an appreciation for nature too. (Nikki, )

62/ Post-natal care
Maybe epidurals are not common here, but at least you are given options of giving birth at home, at the hospital or a birthing center. Kraamzorg (at home baby and new mother nursing services which include light housecleaning and babysitting of sibblings) after the birth is a real perk. (Lucie, )